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Are You Finally Ready To
Unapologetically Create A Life So Good You’re Only Jealous Of Yourself?

Are you finally ready to
unapologetically create a life so good you’re only jealous of yourself?

It’s time to get unstuck and enjoy more success, confidence, money, and freedom than you ever thought possible while being supported and loved by your kind of people. 



You don’t have to keep living a life you want to escape from.

You can ditch mediocrity, get unstuck, and start living a life that makes people say “I’ll have what she’s having.” 

i know because I’ve done it. 

I went from a home with no running water to building an 8-figure business...

...working with celebrities, selling over a million copies of my books, and enjoying soul-stirring relationships that leave me dizzy with gratitude. 

I ditched imposter syndrome, stopped giving a single mouse fuck what people thought of me, and made mySELF the priority. I can help you do the same.

It’s time to rewrite your story, embrace your main character energy, and be the star of your own life!

You don’t have enough money to live the life you’re meant for (yet).

You feel insecure, maybe even insignificant, and you worry about what people will think.

You would love to be healthier and finally feel good in your own body.

Let's talk about you...

You long for relationships that make your toes curl.

Oh… AND… You want a step-by-step plan to go from 0 to everything.

You’ve got champagne dreams on a prosecco budget. There’s so much you want to do, have, and experience. 

Oh, what you wouldn’t give to finally be confident enough to be who you are without apologizing for it.

You want to look good and feel good without starvation or deprivation. Is that too much to ask?

You have a burning desire for deep connections, conversation, and romance that sets your soul on fire (and some other places too). 

Have I got it right? 

You’re ready for…

More money in the bank

So you can eat where you want, get an iced latte every day, and wear clothes that make you feel good. You want to drive the car you want and live in the house that feels like a home.

More freedom to live life on your terms

So you can create your own schedule and hours in a job you love while doing work that actually fulfills you with plenty of free time for travel, self care, or whatever the fuck you want.

More confidence to be who you really are

So you can feel like you matter, know you’re good enough, and finally (omg finally) stop caring what THEY think.



Allow Me To Introduce The…


A one-of-a-kind coaching community for people who want to create a wildly fulfilling life where you have it ALL and don’t give a tiny mouse fuck what others think of you.

membership breakdown:

Live SELF Made Sessions

In these live sessions (the 1st Tuesday of every month at 10 AM), we’ll get to the truth of what’s keeping you stuck and rewrite the stories that have held you back. You’ll get clear on your Future Self and embrace the Identity of it now. You will create a personal playbook where you get clear on your boundaries, discover your deepest passion and purpose, and understand what makes you uniquely YOU. 

We’ll explore topics like self-confidence, making (a lot of) money, managing emotions, getting rid of imposter syndrome, creating success on your terms, sparking red-hot romance, forming deep and loyal relationships, personal style, creating a luxurious environment, having more fun and embracing more pleasure, and finally breaking out of your comfort zone.

You’ll become completely, unapologetically obsessed with yourSELF!

The SELF Made Membership is a monthly membership program designed to take you from where you are to everywhere you want to go.

You’ll remember this as the year that everything changed.

Here’s how we’ll do it:

SELF Made Workbooks

The magic happens in the in-between. After your live SELF Made Session, you’ll be able to dive deep into the SELF Work found in these beautiful workbooks designed for you monthly. You’ll discover journal prompts, self coaching tools, and self care techniques to take you deeper into your Future Self than you’ve ever gone before.

These modern resources are nothing like you’ve seen before. They’re some of my best-kept secrets that I’ve used with celebrities, billionaires, artists, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders to radically change their life in the best sort of ways and now you’ll have them too.

Live SELF Made Coaching Sessions

I’ll answer your questions and coach you on the topic we covered in the SELF Made Session and anything that came up during your SELF Work in your SELF Made Workbook. These sessions occur the 3rd Tuesday of every month at 10 AM. 

You’ll connect with people just like you, hear their stories, share in their successes, and come together to create a community like the world has never known. A community of badass, bold, breathtaking women who don’t let anything – or anyone – stand in their way. (Can I get an amen?)

Member Community

There is nothing like finding your people. Being able to invite another human into your stories, your struggles, and your deepest desires and have them support you through all of it – without judgment or trying to “fix” you is an experience like none other. You’ll wonder how you lived without it.

The trust and love in this community is one of a kind. Connect with others going through a similar journey, hear secrets about what’s working, and share your finds (whether it’s a great read, that amazing pair of shoes, a lovely candle, or the jeans that make every woman’s butt look amazing). As soon as you enter this community, you’ll know you’re home.

SELF Made Vault

I’ve been a coach for over 17 years now and in that time, I’ve created powerful programs around health, mindset, making money, personal style, weight loss, emotional eating, skincare, success, relationships, and more. And now, I’m giving them all to you in this exclusive vault.

These programs have been used with celebrities, featured in media all over the globe, and downloaded thousands of times. That’s all wonderful. But, the thing I’m most proud of is… they work. They’ve transformed the lives of millions and they can do the same for you.

plus... enjoy this *Bonus* program!

I’m obsessed with this 6-week program and I think you will be too! It was designed to lay a solid foundation for the work we’ll do in the SELF Made Membership. It uses a proven process that's backed by neuroscience, narrative psychology, and positive psychology. And… it works.

This is the first program I’ve created outside my coaching schools in 10 years! And I couldn’t be prouder of it. With modules on rewriting your limiting stories and embracing the identity of your Future SELF, it will change your life if you let it. It will help you become SELF Made.

In addition to high-quality videos, you’ll receive downloadable audios to listen on the go, and a beautifully designed workbook so you can create yourSELF in style.

SELF Made Method

In this lesson, you'll discover what it means to be jealous of yourSELF and get clear on what that means for you and what kind of life you want to create.

lesson 01

You've tried everything to get unstuck and nothing has worked. In this lesson, you'll discover what's really keeping you stuck and how to ditch it for good!

lesson 02

The stories you tell your SELF about your SELF create yourSELF. In this lesson, we'll explore how to rewrite the stories that keep you stuck, for good.

lesson 03

In this lesson, we'll turn up the dream machine and help you design your Future Self - without apologizing for it.

lesson 04

In this lesson, we'll explore the true "secret" to becoming SELF Made - without willpower, outdated goal-setting, or white-knuckling your way through.

lesson 05

In this lesson, we'll explore the evolving journey of becoming your powerful, unique, unstoppable SELF and celebrate yourSELF in the process!

lesson 06


Jaw-dropping confidence where you walk into every room like you own it (who knows, one day you just might)

A bank account that pays for your every want and need and yet somehow keeps growing and expanding

Relationships that are deep, meaningful, and set your soul (and some other places too) on fire

Boundless energy and a body you finally feel confident in with plenty of time for SELF care

A home that feels like a soft space to land, your refuge from the outside world. One that’s elegant, inspiring, and reflective of the bold, powerful, influential person you are

A wardrobe that leaves you feeling confident, beautiful, and unstoppable, no matter what you choose to wake up and put on

With all of this (and more, wait for it…)







Join NOW!

What are you waiting for?? 



In the SELF Made Membership, you’ll enjoy all the perks and benefits mentioned above! 

Or, you can become a VIP.

option 1: 


As a VIP who is going all in on yourSELF, you’ll enjoy exclusive perks and bonuses that include: 

option 2: 

How you spend your days is how you spend your life. This exciting course helps you take a close look at your priorities and aligns them with your purpose and your passion so you end up being productive on the RIGHT things. The things that help you become SELF Made.

This lesson starts by asking the question, “What do you WANT to do?” instead of “What do you NEED to do?”. You’ll see how to align your purpose with your passions to create priorities which makes you productive. And yes, it’s as exciting as it sounds!

Now that you’re clear on the What – what you’re doing based on your purpose, passion, and priorities - the next step to stop wasting your time is knowing “when” to spend time on things. You’ll discover the ONE thing I bet you’re overlooking when it comes to your calendar that will help you get more done in less time and actually enjoy the process!

In this part we move into how you schedule your time and explore exciting topics such as unfocused time and positive constructive daydreaming (yes, it’s as fun as it sounds AND it boosts your productivity and leaves you more creative!).

In this exciting lesson, you’ll discover how to create routines and rhythms that leave you feeling calm, clear, and peaceful instead of frantic, anxious and overwhelmed. I’ll share my 3-step system for create more freedom in your life and more time for yourSELF!

Chuck Close said, “inspiration is for amateurs, the rest of us just show up and get to work.” I like Chuck. We could be friends. In this lesson, you’ll discover how to kick resistance to the curb and get shit done even if you’re a procrastinator who likes to put things off until the last minute. I got you!

Distractions are what cause your dreams to die. They keep you stuck and we ain’t got no time for that if we’re going to become SELF Made. In this lesson, you’ll discover the tips and tricks I use to focus and get shit done so I have more free time.

Stop Wasting Your F*$king Time: The Ultimate Time Management Course

vip bonus: 

($397 value)

Part 01 - Start with What

Part 02 - Yes, But When?

Part 03 - This Is How

Part 04 - The Magic of Schedules

Part 05 - Inspiration Is for Amateurs

Part 06 - How to Avoid Distractions

Behind-The-Scenes Access to an Unfiltered Peek at My Life

vip bonus: 

I live a really good life. It’s not just that I’m wealthy, although I do love money… like a lot, or that I have a home that’s both comfortable and stylish where all my needs are met with healthy food that feeds my soul and family and friends that would help me bury the bodies. It’s that I’ve created it.

And I want to take you behind-the-scenes of it all. Come along with me as I get dressed for an evening out, do my skincare routine, meet up with friends, and host my new show, “I’d Like to Thank MySELF”. You’ll see exclusive footage each month that you can’t find anywhere else! 

($ Priceless)

Savings of $200

vip bonus: 

You save $200 when you go all in and pay for the year. Use it to treat yourSELF! 




Become A Member

Choose the payment option that best serves you and join the membership.



No waiting for an email with login information. You can start enjoying this game changing content right away.


Become SELF Made

Enjoy the process of designing a life, career, and relationships so good you’re only jealous of yourSELF!

"Finally, somebody's got it right... This girl is amazing!"


"If you think Cynthia's work is all about looking good and feeling good... look again! This woman's work creates well-being from the inside out that gives everyone who consumes her work that one-of-a-kind glow that everyone deserves."

- gina devee

"If you think Cynthia's work is all about looking good and feeling good... look again! This woman's work creates well-being from the inside out that gives everyone who consumes her work that one-of-a-kind glow that
everyone deserves."

"This woman is so wonderful! She is a beautiful being of light and a thought leader in a world that is so frightening to people sometimes."


"One of the most amazing humans on the planet."



$197 / month
Founding Member Rate:
$97 / month

Live SELF Made Sessions

Live SELF Made Coaching Sessions

SELF Made Workbooks

SELF Made Member Community

SELF Made Vault

Bonus: SELF Made Method program


Best value!


One payment of $1,997
Founding Member Rate:
One payment of $997

EVERYTHING  in the SELF Made Membership PLUS...

VIP BONUS: Stop Wasting Your F*$king Time Course

VIP BONUS: Behind-The-Scenes, Unfiltered Peek at My Life

VIP BONUS: $200 Savings! It’s like getting 2 and a half months for FREE!


(Most flexible!)

Founding Members lock in a lower, lifetime rate!

but hurry, it ENDS NOV 30, 2023 and membership rate doubles in 2024!

You’re here because you want more.
 You’re ready for a life you don’t want to escape from.

But you’re stuck.

And it isn’t like you haven’t tried! (Oh, how you’ve tried.)

You’ve tried planners, programs, and morning routines.

You’ve followed influencers and experts like it’s your full-time job.

You’ve tried kicking imposter syndrome to the curb but… like that old boyfriend from high school, it keeps coming back.

Nothing has worked.

It’s Your Stories.

But What If I Told You That the Problem Wasn’t You… 

Maybe you’ve told yourSELF some of the same stories I have: 

• I don’t have what it takes so why even try.
• I’m not smart enough.
• I’m not good with money – making it or keeping it.
• People like me don’t have things like that.
• People will judge me.
• I don’t know how.
• I should be further along in life than I am right now.
• I’m not smart enough to do it so I’ll end up looking stupid.
• I could never wear that.
• It’s too late.
• They will see that I’m a fraud.



The stories we tell ourselves to make sense of the world end up creating our Identity. 

In other words, the stories we tell our SELF about our SELF create our SELF.

But… wait for it…

When you become aware of the stories you tell, you can rewrite them in a way that serves you instead of keeping you stuck.

You can construct a new SELF by design rather than default.

You can become SELF Made.

This is called Identity-Based Coaching and it’s my specialty.

And ALL behavior (every mouse bite of it) is driven by who you believe yourSELF to be, aka your Identity.

Allow me to properly introduce myself…

I created Identity-Based Coaching and the SELF Made Method to help people just like you who want to create a life so good they’re only jealous of themselves!

But what you might not ever imagine is my struggle…

I grew up in a 3-room shack (4 if you count the kitchen we had to walk outside to get into) with no running water or indoor plumbing. (Yes, that means using an outhouse until I was 15 years old.) I dealt with unspeakable trauma and abuse, hunger, and violence.

I’ve been broke, hungry, and homeless. I’ve dealt with depression, abused drugs and alcohol, and suffered from mental health issues as long as I can remember.

I had no rich uncle, didn’t inherit money, didn’t marry rich, and no one gave me anything.

Like you, I knew I was meant for bigger things. I knew I was meant for more.

EVERYTHING changed when I rewrote the stories I told about my experiences and created the Identity of who I wanted to be in the future.

EVERYTHING changed when I stopped trying to “FIX” mySELF and instead, CREATED mySELF.

In other words….
Everything changed when I became SELF Made.

Today, I am a self-made multimillionaire, best-selling author, and owner of multiple 7 and 8-figure businesses. 

I’m known for helping people get unstuck through rewriting their stories and designing their future SELF, without apology.

In other words, I help people become SELF Made.

And I’m really good at it.

I’ve been able to help people who have “tried everything” finally embrace their boldest, most authentic, most confident SELF and step into a life straight out of their favorite fairy tale.

I’ve helped them transform their health, their wealth, and their relationships through embracing the identity of their Future Self and focusing on who they BE not on what they DO.

It’s what I’m known for.

I’ve been on tons of TV shows and have worked with celebrities like Khloe Kardashian. I’ve sold just over a million copies of my books. I have a husband who I’m madly in love with, a child who stole my whole heart, and friends who will help me bury the bodies.

I live a life that’s so good I’m only jealous of mySELF.

I'm here to be an example of what's possible. To prove that it does not matter where you’ve been or what you’ve been through. You too can take action and create the life you want regardless of your obstacles and without apologies. AND have fun in the process!

I will show you how.

Finally feel confident walking into a room

Enjoy a bank account that keeps growing

Create deep, meaningful relationships

Enjoy boundless energy in a body you love

Identity-Based Coaching is the Modern Secret to Becoming SELF Made 

You will only ever succeed, love, and live to the limit of your current identity.

Yes, your Identity decides your entire life - from the money you make to the relationships you have to the confidence you have when you walk into a room.

With Identity-Based Coaching, the focus is on changing who you be first so what you do is simply second nature – no willpower or white knuckling it required.

It’s based in narrative psychology, neuroscience, and positive psychology. And it works.

Change is so much easier - and more fun – than what we’ve all been led to believe!

And it’s exactly what you’ll experience in the SELF Made Membership.

For Less Than The Cost of Your Daily Latte, You Can Create A Life So Good You’re Only Jealous Of Yourself!


$197 / month
Founding Member Rate:
$97 / month

Live SELF Made Sessions

Live SELF Made Coaching Sessions

SELF Made Workbooks

SELF Made Member Community

SELF Made Vault

Bonus: SELF Made Method program


Best value!


One payment of $1,997
Founding Member Rate:
One payment of $997

EVERYTHING  in the SELF Made Membership PLUS...

VIP BONUS: Stop Wasting Your F*$king Time Course

VIP BONUS: Behind-The-Scenes, Unfiltered Peek at My Life

VIP BONUS: $200 Savings! It’s like getting 2 and a half months for FREE!


(Most flexible!)

Founding Members lock in a lower, lifetime rate!


You are not alone.
I know what it’s like…

I had to shine a big ol’ light on how I was the only one standing in my way.

I had to acknowledge that I pushed people away, said “no” to letting anyone support me, and sabotaged my own efforts at changing my life.

I had to stop judging others for having what I wanted because I wasn’t willing to do the work.

I had to stop blaming and framing everyone else for the results I was creating (or not) in my own life.

I had to deal with the trauma and shame I had carried with me from childhood.

None of this was serving me.

It’s not serving you either.

Once I let go of all the bullshit holding me back, I got busy creating my Future Self.

I rewrote the stories that had kept me stuck.

I embraced a new Identity of a person who had, and was, everything I wanted and then some. And my entire life changed.

What I share in this program is exactly how I did it.

It’s how I designed mySELF and the life I wanted to live, without apology, and then stepped into it like it was Cinderella’s slipper.

I struggled with feeling stuck, unable to change my life, longer than I care to remember.

Option #1:
Stay where you are and join the Membership later.

But why in the world would you do that?

When did it become ok to settle for mediocrity? For average days? For average relationships? And average paychecks?

When did having just enough become your standard?

When (and why) did you just decide to stay stuck, lacking the courage to take the next step to change things?

You are meant for more than that. You deserve more than that.

Now all that being said… the choice to raise your hand and say, “it’s my time,” as always… is yours.

Option #2:
Do the damn thing!

Ohhhh, ok! Look at YOU!

Refusing to let one more minute – fuck that, one more SECOND – go by without living the life you know you’re meant for.

That’s what I’m saying!

You aren’t going to recognize yourSELF at the end of our time together. I can’t wait.

Let’s go!

So, At This Point, You Have Two Options… 


$197 / month
Founding Member Rate:
$97 / month

Live SELF Made Sessions

Live SELF Made Coaching Sessions

SELF Made Workbooks

SELF Made Member Community

SELF Made Vault

Bonus: SELF Made Method program


Best value!


One payment of $1,997
Founding Member Rate:
One payment of $997

EVERYTHING  in the SELF Made Membership PLUS...

VIP BONUS: Stop Wasting Your F*$king Time Course

VIP BONUS: Behind-The-Scenes, Unfiltered Peek at My Life

VIP BONUS: $200 Savings! It’s like getting 2 and a half months for FREE!


(Most flexible!)

Founding Members lock in a lower, lifetime rate!


I  trust you to decide what serves you best.

I’ll leave you with this…

Change doesn’t have to be as hard as we’ve been led to believe. 

And it doesn’t matter where you’ve been, what you’ve been through, or what kind of shit show you’ve had to navigate to find your way to me.

You CAN change your life – on your terms – to have everything you want and then some.

Anything you’ve ever struggled with – trauma, drama, painful disappointment – you can transform. None of these things can survive without YOU allowing them to.

YOU get to decide what your life is like. You and you alone.

You get to create the SELF you want to wake up to. You get to BE that SELF. You get to be SELF Made.

The choice, as always, is yours.

i'm in! let's do this!

Do I really need to commit to a 12-month membership program to be SELF Made? 


No, you don’t. But it’s so much easier and way more likely to happen if you do.

Sure, I could give you a program and send you on your way but, through years of coaching, I know it’s not how you’re best served.

The truth is…

There are days you will want to quit. Days when rewriting your story (again) is just too hard.

I have those days too. That’s why the SELF Made Membership was created.

It’s time to stop resisting change. To stop trying to use willpower or white-knuckling to create the life you want.

It’s time to relax into a powerful community of people – just like you – led by one of the top coaches in the world – me! – and be supported on your road to greatness.

I use the processes, tools, and techniques in the SELF Made Membership every single day.

They have helped me to create a life I can’t believe is mine. They will do the same for you if you show up and commit to doing the work. And the work is so much easier when you have the tools, the accountability, and the support of others.

That’s where the SELF Made Membership comes in.


I really want to do this but I’m just not ready.


Ready is a lie. It’s a story.

In my experience, the most successful people are the ones who start BEFORE they are ready.

We’re never “ready” to become our Future Self but it’s going to happen by default or by design. The truth is, it’s happening already. You can keep letting your life be created for you or YOU can be the one doing the creating.

The choice, as always, is yours.


If I don’t like it, can I have a refund?


As much as I want you to be delighted with the SELF Made Membership, it only works if you commit to and trust the process. If you show up and consistently do the work.

I’ve put my 17 years of experience helping people change their lives into this program and will continue to month after month after month.

I’ll show up for you and give you the best I got. I will teach my face off to make sure you create a life so good you’re only jealous of yourSELF.

Because of that, the live nature of the program, and the enormous amount of content found in the program, the vault, and the bonuses, we have a strict no refund policy.


I would do anything to change my life but it feels like I’m broken. Will this really work for me?


Ok, let’s get one thing clear… You are not broken and you do not need to be “fixed”.

There is nothing wrong with you.

We all have self-sabotaging patterns, limiting beliefs, and fucked up stories that block us from the greatness we’re meant for in all areas of our life. That’s normal.

But becoming SELF Made isn’t about FIXING yourself, it’s about creating yourSELF.

That’s what we’ll do, together, in the SELF Made Membership.