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Larry King Asked Me Who Runs My Business

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Episode Description:

Larry King looked me in my face and asked who runs my business “for” me. What happened next changed everything.

I spent close to 40 years trying to prove my worth to people who were never going to see it anyway. This week, I finally quit. But the reason I quit isn’t what you think. It started at a party in the Hollywood Hills and ended with a question on a Zoom call that I couldn’t stop thinking about.

In this episode, you’ll discover:
  • What Larry King said to me at a Hollywood Hills party that made me want to commit a small, tasteful crime
  • The pattern I didn’t see playing out for my entire adult life (and why it was never once a woman)
  • The one question my massage therapist asked that I still can’t answer
  • What happened when someone unmuted on a Zoom call to ask about my lipstick while I was teaching business strategy
  • Why perimenopause made me put my phone in the fridge and my entire career into perspective
  • The moment I realized the thing I was most offended by for 20 years was actually the answer
  • What I’m doing now instead of teaching business and why I’ve never been more sure of anything

If you’re a woman over 40 who’s exhausted from proving yourself and wondering whether the thing you keep resisting is actually the thing… this one’s for you.


Video Chapters:
00:30 — Have you ever tried to prove your worth to people who were never going to see it?
01:12 — Larry King at the Hollywood Hills party
04:02 — Growing up in Appalachia with no running water
05:36 — The chip on my shoulder that built multiple businesses
08:34 — The question my massage therapist asked
10:10 — The lipstick question that changed everything
12:29 — Perimenopause hit and I made a decision
15:25 — The lipstick question was the answer
18:04 — What I’m doing now
22:14 — The Toast

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